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Sunday, August 30, 2009

Reply of tags:


to joss: haha, yah lo.. e caterpillar soft soft still gt sound very cute..




to jing: haha, ji dan ke lian right? u n jun nv visit him lol.. mei liang xin de! hmm, she is 4yr older than me..but she say she gt experience taking care of her 2kids lehz.. no la, nt sending her back yet, give her 2 more weeks time to learn..




to treasurystone: thanks for reading my blog. =) u r?




to zhuzhu: yupz, will find more ppl share.. but their clothes seem very thick material lol




to joy: pain pain! u bully xiao di di lor.. haha




i m gg back to work tmr..
i very very cant bear to leave my baby lewis at hm with maid
coz i noe he will reject everthing e maid give-milk & water..
and refuse to slp when maid pat him
he will only cry n scream


i wan him to hav enuf milk each tm, and hav enuf slp
then he feel happy n wun be so cranky


today went twister at JP2 to trim my fringe(serve by yvonne)
went coslab trim eyebrow
then went guardian get my hair dye and aso sum chocolates
didnt even shop at all
was rushing hm coz sis call n say baby is crying badly


damm rush lol..
after feed lewis milk and put him to slp liao, i dye my hair
OMG, e smell is so irritating, tat it makes me feel uncomfortable lol
and e acidic gas aso make my eye pain
overall not bad.. its my 1st time DIY colour my hair..
so i feel its fun..
colour wise, i tink it looks ok too!
mum went CCK now with my godma
hope she cum hm faster, coz i wan slp early..
tmr gotta wake up at 6am..
hope tmr everything will go smoothly for me..







papa toking with baby..
1st time lewis tok so much with his papa lol, and keep smiling aso =)



Saturday, August 29, 2009

Reply of tags to jo: ya, starting is really not bad, now she starts to slack a little le lor.. and she cant cope with baby, tats e worse part.. to penny: ok, linked u up too! ya, maid is here since monday. ur maid aso coming soon le lo.. ya, will observe her more, i keep follow her secretly now n then.. haha.. btw, u have nt added me in msn? wan ask u abt SSA.. to nana: ya, 2 mths+ is too early.. intend to let him start at 3 mths.. wat type of brown rice u give ashton? to shiyin: sure, linked! to sp: wah lau, u juz cum back from holi jiu suan me.. i very headache bout maid lor.. to jing: ya, i noe ji dan need tm to adapt.. if ji dan refuse her, i can understand.. but basic stuff such as change diapers or burp after feeding, she aso can do wrongly so many times.. and when my boy choke when drinking milk, she nv let him sit upright n burp him, she juz continue stuffing milk into his mouth, will choke de lor.. common sense things still need us to tell her.. and then she tell me philipines take care baby is diff.. how diff? dun need change diaper? dun need burp? dunno hw to bath? duno hw to carry baby? me n my mum seriously doubt she say she hav experience taking care of baby before..




juz back from ntuc nw..
wait til mum is back hm, wait for her to bath, eat..
then me n my hubby can go out..
stocked up lewis diapers n milk..
2 packs diaper n 2 tin milk cost me more than $100.. =(
bgt cans of soft drink as well..



my mum ask me to give her one more chance..
today my mum spoke to my maid, tell her if she still cant take care of baby lewis properly in 1 week time,i will send her off
she told my mum she wan to stay here..
so now she has 1-2weeks time to learn...
and then whole day my maid dun dare look at me, like very scared like tat
keep finding hsework to do non-stop lol


i shall list wat she did wrong today
1) place baby in yao lan IMMEDIATELY after his milk, nv even burp
2) nv change diapers for lewis, i already tell her to change his diapers after every feed
3) give lewis drink cold water, instead of warm water
4) ask her to make 100ml of milk, she make 120ml.(i dun even noe whether she put the correct amt of milk anot)
5) keep playing with him, nv let him go slp
6) dun noe wat time to give milk, always give milk too early, baby dunwan drink and end up waste my milk
7) nv put hankie at e neck dere before giving milk or water, then end up always the shirt is soiled
8) is very rough when bathing for lewis, grabs his hands cum ribs so tight!! tat my baby is crying loudly..(he does love bathing ok)
9) nv clean the inner part, those with layers of fats near his private area.. neck aso nv clean
10) when changin new diaper, she raised his legs so high up like wan to overturn him like tat.. den behind pampers wear until chest area, so front part nt even long, of course cant tap la, behind put till so much, in front only can cover little bit only.. always adjust here adjust dere until my boy fed-up lol


most impt is my baby dun seem to be drinking well n enuff since she is here...
he only drinks 60ml every 4 hrly for a almost 3 mth old baby lehz
he shld be drinking 120-130ml every 3-4hrly
when me or my mum feed, he does drink tat much de..


tmr onwards, only me or my mum will be bathing for my boy
we dunwan her to bath le


whenever i at hm, i will take care my boy myself
from all e pitiful cries n screams i hear this few days, it really breaks my heart
my boy dun need her
she juz do her hsework can liao
i feel my boy is suffering with her ard



when i hold lewis close to me, he actually calms down fast and fall asleep in my arms..
i realise i love my boy more than i imagined..



juz 2 more days and i need to go back to work..
but i will cum hm early everyday..
i dunwan work OT
i wan to cum hm to take care of my boy myself
i noe my boy needs me =)



Thursday, August 27, 2009

i am trying to upload one video of lewis laughing but failed lehz... my maid is here for the 4th day... hsework wise, quite ok.. when i ask her do, she wil do if nt, she will juz sit dere watch tv okok, if she wan to rest, i dun mind.. as long as all her work is done as for baby lewis, she is nt able to handle him yet e way she carry my baby is different and funny make my boy seem so insecure hav tgt her hw to carry and pat to slp, but she nv follow then she keep give my boy drink water she aso duno when is milk time.. when my boy wake up n cry, she juz keep blabbering with my boy nv even check whether its time for milk alrdy.. n juz nw my boy drink only 70ml of milk then dunwan.. she juz give water to compensate e milk n then ask him go slp slp for 2 hr, wake up, hungry le right? she nv make milk.. i wan to surrender alrdy lar.. she duno how to agar agar mehz? i alrdy told her he drink 120-140ml every  3-4hrly my mum told me nt to step in to interfere.. let baby accept her first else when i go work i aso cant help but i dun care i cant so stiff heart my boy is nt drinking enuf hw can she juz stuff paci and force him to slp??? i ask her go eat her dinner, i went to pick him up make more milk and he drank.. so y she tell me lewis dunwan drink? dun seem true right?? then my mum say she put lewis on e bed immediately after milk so, expected, milk all vomit out nv even burp she say she take care of her 2 child before de.. dun she noe after milk have to burp?? i really really so bu fang xin to put lewis in her care i juz hope she can learn fast and dun disappoint me i will give her more time to learn for now.. else i am gg to send her back.. ML ending soon gg back to work in 3 days time.. looking forward but aso worried bout my bao bei



Tuesday, August 25, 2009

went out with mum, 2 sister, sis in law, baby lewis yest
first to turf city ah yat seafood eat dim sum
very nice
order peking duck aso

then went sin ming drive
i went to pray buddha
my mum n sis went to pray my 2nd uncle


then went pasir ris lane
aso temple


then go agent dere to bring my maid
she is very scared and she really shivered at e agency
i guess this is e 1st tm she goes abroad tats y she was rather nevous
she was supposed to cut her hair
but i can see tat she wants to keep her hair
i agreed not to cut her hair but she hav to tie it up and clip all her hair
i dun really mind whether hw long her hair is, as long as it does nt hinder her doing work and she is neat will be ok


she sweep n mop e flr yest
use hand mop de wor..
mop till 11+
we ask her go bath and slp


today my hubby wake up 7.15 go toilet
he saw my maid cleaning up e kitchen
faster wake me up
hey ur maid dun need slp?
i look at e time
shocked!
jump out of bed, quickly go kitchen
then i ask her, u hav enuf slp? go n slp more..
she say enuf.. then i make bfast for her and went back slp


so she clean up e kitchen, clean up my mum rm, clean up my rm, clean up my bro rm, and part of e living rm
alot right?
i guess she is really tired
i keep ask her go rest
she say "ok mum"
but still continue to wipe all e things


haha, she is gd
she really wipe every corner, nt those swipe n go type
but hav to observe long term


later my butterfly cumin my hse
buy bubble tea n donut for me lol
=)



Monday, August 24, 2009

i m like so eager to blog now..
coz i like my blog layout
so very feel like blogging right now


firstly, BIG thanks to alene for helping me to change my blog layout
she's really so nice n sweet =)
shall mit up with her when she is back from aussie..


okok.. yest hubby offday
we both coped at hm playing texas poker..
was really addicted to it, maybe coz hubby frien is competing, so very fun.. haha
night tm baby lewis slept with us..
so end up i didnt slp for e whole night
not tat lewis keep making noise
but i am so not used to him slp with me
cant help worrying tat my "bomb" will explode anytm


tmr mum offday, but she need go to visit my small uncle as nw is 7 mth, then she wan to pack her things aso
so i hav to stay at hm take care baby
actually plann go rebond with my butterfly
but nw cant join her le.. maybe i go alone on fri..


my maid coming this tue or wed
is very very late..
coz i am gg back to wrk on the following mon
only hav max 5 days to train her
hope everything goes well
mainly her job is to take care of my baby
household chores can put aside..


bcoz he is nw so addicted to eating his hands, i decide to remove his mittens.
and i try cutting his fingernails
i chiped off his flesh as well..
sorry baby lewis..
lucky he didnt cry.. he is mummy brave boy =)
he likes to cover his face with both hands when slp, so very hard for me to bundle him up lol
i try placing him siting down, he is like bu dao wong.. haha
his emo face
lookin up, guess wat he's looking?
tadah.. his fav caterpillar...
i only intro this toy to him, so shld be his fav toy ya.. hehe
c his head?
he is trying to get up..
nw always when i feeding him milk, he will use force to get up..
so scared he will hurt his spine this way lol

looking at me coz i call out his name
smile smile happy baby
7th mth is no good..
he is always cranky ard evening tm onwards
pray hard this lunar mth pass faster
tmr maybe meeting jun n jing at jp for dinner
nt confirm
hav to c whether mum is free at tat tm anot...
but still, miss them lotsa..



Thursday, August 20, 2009


today is e start of e 7th mth

i dun like

hope this mth passes fast...



baby lewis was slp in his yao lan
then suddenly he shout, scream
scared me man...
normally he will cry if he wake up
but this tm he jitao scream loud loud
make me tink is bcoz of 7th mth
summore its like near to 7pm
so its like start of e 1st night of 7th mth lol


then after tat, i put in yao lan again
most is slp for half hr then wake up
else is dun wan slp


and i cant leave his sight..
when i get up to get sth, he will wail
only when i sit beside him, then he will stop



somemore tonight wind big, gt thunder now aso...
OMG, things juz dun seem right..



okok... try nt to be pantang
nw waiting for my mum to be back from work
and waiting for my sis to be back from her dating


can c how messy my hair is right?
i m super shagged =(



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Wednesday, August 19, 2009

i wanted to update my blog yest, but hubby keep wan snatch comp with me
he is nw so addicted to texas poker on facebook lol




17Aug09


woke up super early at 9am
rushed down to cathay ciniplex to watch UP
quite nice show
so long since i watched kiddy shows, haha


i went all e way to orchard juz bcoz i wann the cup from UP combo
its really so pretty
aso bgt a nuggets combo as we both had not had our bfast and we were hungry
alone movie damage is $40
like so ex lol
somemore we watch on weekday morning lehz




but still worth it la, coz its really very long since i go dating with hubby lor




then went to tikum those machine u put coin in, turn turn turn, then collect ur egg
my sis tikum tat tm, she wan e mermaid one, but gt e snow white
and i happen to walk past it, so tgt of trying my luck
tada!
so lucky, one try, and its e mermaid one =)




then walked ard cineleisure coz we were damm hungry
settles for lunch at pastamania
after lunch, i had only 15mins b4 hubby leaves to work
so i decide to rush to mothercare at centrepoint




i didnt even have time to shop ard, and hubby was hurrying me
but i dun wan leave empty handed
i juz wan buy sth for my baby
end up i bgt one long slv shirt and a rattle toy
satisfied!
but i still wan go again to shop slowly
their things r kinda diff from kiddy palace, hehe




took mrt back to jurong point
called hm and mum say lewis is slp
she's aso free to help me look after for awhile more
so i decide go shoppin for clothes
bgt a dress from dano, a dress from pepper plus, a skirt from headerdash
a spagathi top from headerdash for my sis as well
damage ard 100
went hm as its late le




i am like so so so happy can
so long nv go out shop le






and i started bathing for my boy
was quite scared i might hurt him
worried i might drop him in water
worried e water temp might be too hot or cold
worried many many la
since newborn til now, all along is my mum bathing for him
my mum happen to be busy past few days
and my naughty boy dunwan slp
so i tgt of bathing for him, and it succeded!!!!


muz take pic of my 1st tm bathin for him =)





Sunday, August 16, 2009

i am very very good mood today


y?


of course is my baby lewis


he is like so so obedient today


and he listens and responds to me

eg, he is crying when juz wake up bcoz he is hungry
i tell him dun cry, wait for mummy, mummy go take milk  for u ok..
and he stop crying,
when i came back with e milk ready, he saw me and cry
i noe he is really hungry, so i dun blame him
but at least he did stop crying and waited for me right?

eg, when i speak to him in those play play tone, he will burbur back, in his baby language
and i say one word, he reply one word type lol
then i act cute voice, he smile at me!!!
nt only once, many tms le..
my family all witness it..
imagine i had to make him smile for each of them to see?
so it did happen for quite a number of tm le..


i so so so heart him now..
i start to feel some kind of motherly love for him
he is my bao bei =)



Thursday, August 13, 2009

random post..
new shoe my mum bgt for lewis, find it soo pretty..
i aso wan go JUSCO buy baby stuffs
cheap and nice!!
try to let him sit himself by placing 2 pillows to support him..
after finish washing his milk bottles, he bcum like tat.. haha
i like to capture his smile..
he starts to smile & laugh more now..
i have a video of him laughin, but duno how to upload :(
i tgt he wan to smile, end up he juz open mouth~~
he starts to eat his hands now aso..
and then rub against his face lol
i feel so happy when he smile
sumtm he makes me so angry
then he can suddenly smile at me
naturally i smile back at him and i noe i love my baby lots!!

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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

was so angry over HUGGIES pampers..
i swear i will nv ever buy it again..


as this is my 1st baby, to me i juz try any brand of pampers and milk for him initially..
so if not suitable due to rashes for pampers or due to constipation for milk
i will juz switch to other brand...
i noe diff babies suit diff brands right?

for milk, TMC staff recommend me mamex gold..
found tat baby have watery stools on and off
so normal instinct is not to waste milk powder right?
so decide to finish current milk already bought, then next tm onwards, i will start buy diff brand..
i tried him on friso gold.. was quite ok..
he poo daily or most 2days.. and stool was not watery..
we then stick to this milk till now...


for diapers, i used mamy poko since birth..
then one day, my mum went ntuc, she buy petpet pampers for my boy
i was angry and tell her this brand no good.. will get rashes etc..
but she say her manager recommend her, saying this is good
okok.. she even bgt 2 huge packs lor!!!
so juz use right?
i diliberately wan to use finish all fast fast
so keep changing his pampers like so frequently..
then we realise petpet not so bad actually, as in it does not cause rashes, no leak, tape quite sticky
so i decide to let lewis wear petpet in e day, as it is much cheaper than mamy poko, we can change his diapers every feed, so he will feel more comfortable aso..
then night tm where he slp longer, i will use mamy poko..


so last week, i went ntuc to stock up more of petpet
NO STOCK!!!
then i saw HUGGIES on promo.. tgt this brand quite famous so shld be quite gd right?
its like usual $39 offer $30
so i bgt 2 packs
and this is e worst part
1) tape not sticky at all
2) will leak, and its not like little bit leak only.. i step on e mattress below his yao lan, its like full of urine, reallly alot.. i still tgt i forgot to wear diapers for lewis, and when i carry him out from yao lan, his shirt are all wet behind near the butt area.. u may tink i forget to change his diapers? but no, i juz change it less than 2hr ago..
3) indicate long lasting pampers-can last for 10 hrs.. but in fact? i tink less than 2 hrs..
4) size are not accurate at all.. lewis is using M size for mamy poko and petpet.. both are still quite loose for him.. but huggies M size? its as though like newborn size.. its like so small n tight tat it cause red marks on lewis thigh.. i brgt the other pack M size to change not to L size but XL size..
5) the tape are sharp..its like pricking on his flesh when he sits upright.. babies are so soft n tender, how can their diapers hac such sharp ends?

after only using the pampers for like few hrs, i seriously wanted to throw all 2 packs away
if the diapers are not this bad, i wldnt even have this tinking, i m nt sum1 who will waste $..

my mum and i was so disappointed with HUGGIES..
i read on forum tat so many mummies are complaining bout this brand too..
if only i had read bout it earlier...



Monday, August 10, 2009

i decide to update my blog now.. which is like 2am?
y i am nt slp yet?
coz mum n sis went JP shopping..
i cant slp.. i need to be on standby for baby
so y dun i slp tgt with baby?
coz baby is slp in mum rm at night while i slp in my rm..
so how to slp tgt???
was msn with yanwen mummy for e 1st tm
noe wat?
mine baby has e same name as her hubby!!
haha.. LEWIS are all smart n handsome guys.. ;)
tink she's busy ba.. then sudden went offline le..
nth to do.. so here i am blogging.. haha


today was a tiring day..
wake up at 10am.. bath, change, rush down to meet my butterfly at mrt
had lunch at our usual-mala steamboat..
then we walk walk walk...
from orchard to somerset to dhoby ghaut to city hall
went many shopping places..
ion is like so many shops lol.. and the basement is like food paradise?
all high end food stuffs =(


wanted to shop for clothes..
but cant find any to my liking..
so tired.. imagine we walk like 10hrs?


so went hm empty handed..
only with one pack of otah.. haha
rch JP ard 10pm
went ntuc bgt durians plus 2 tins of baby milk


thanks my mum for helping me take care of baby for e whole day..
else i wonder when then i wil ever hav e time to go shopping


tok quite alot with my butterfly..
share alot of gossip..
she's like my bestie buddy
we can understand each other..
we share our worst problems..
love her lots.. haha
presenting my miss butterfly!!!!


we join e pledge taking at marina square too
her newly created butterfly colour hands.. haha
lastly, a pic of us taken outside istana..
9yrs of friendship and still counting.. =)



Thursday, August 6, 2009

wanted to bring baby to c pd today
but wake up late
and aso his face gt better le


he made me sooo angry juz now
dunwan slp aft milk
put in yaolan, cry super loud
so i carry him out then play with him
for 3hrs lol!!!!
i scold him(shout) and hit his thigh..

okok.. but he is still super cute lo..
everyday gt new pattern
yest he finally can lift up his head on tummy le
soo happy for him


my mum~~ everynight sure want find my mum to slp de..
trying to lift his head
abit higher now...
look at me.. coz i was toking to him.. seem like he recognise his name
finally!!!!! he can support his head now!!! i am soo happy for him!!!
he hang on to this position for like 10s?
:)
canot tahan le..
head becum lower and start to bite his mittens
trying to get up again..
really no strength le.. and so he CRY for help.. haha
my 1st time capturing his smile.. but this one smile like so fake right?
look down...
isnt this a beautiful smile??
its not e 1st tm he smile at me.. but its e 1st tm i caught his smile on camera!
JING
this is for u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he is standing and shake butt.. haha
baby gg slp le.. nightz all  =)



Monday, August 3, 2009

my sis with baby
papa take pic with baby
baby dunwan take pic with me le, hehe
Updates on lewis 2 mths old progress:

  • drinking 120ml every 3.5hr

  • start to love drinking plain water

  • slp yao lan in e day, night time slp on bed

  • 50% will suck on pacifier, i will forcefully ask him to suck paci if i wan him go slp.. then i can have time for myself, haha... bad mummy

  • poo once everyday

  • dislikes being carried in lying down position, he wants to be carried upright

  • loves to stand on both legs, and he will start to shake butt, very funny!!!

  • have tried on socks for him

  • wear at least 6-12mths clothes now.. (but the tee he wearing in above pic is for 1yr old de, haha..)
  • i can now handle him better and he responds to me too..
  • wear PETPET(cheap) brand pampers in e day, we change his diapers 3hrly, night wear MAMA POKO(ex) brand coz slp longer
  • start to slp for 4hrs then wake up for milk, longest is 5hrs..
  • will puke one mouthful of milk when he burps
  • most active is from 11pm to 1am, refuse to slp.. we surrender to him le. other than this, he will slp after milk time


Tats all i can tink of now..
as for me, i still have not shed off fully yet
still 7kg more to go..
and i feel i wun lose those extras lol
coz i eat fatty stuffs
ard 20 famous amos cookies, 2 subway chocolate chip cookie, mac for supper at 2am, gassy can drinks, buffet with hubby yest, chickenwings.. and many more la
all these ate is yest only!!!
i seriously feel so guilty now..


today is mum off day, hopes she bring me shopping later..
i wana get more long sleeve shirt for lewis, and aso short sleeve ba
coz mummy dun like him to wear rompers..
shagg..
so gotta buy more new clothes for him le
but i gg to buy really big size de
now then i totally agree tat babies outgrow their shirts very FAST
2nd bro day wana sponsor lewis baby walker
so be gg JP to choose one later
but actually there is one i like le, mum say too big, not good all.. but i tink really very macho lol.. not tat kiddish type..
and KOSE gt promo at JP this week
gg to get it too..
very cheap and worth it!!!!


oh, and i jealous!
jun n jing go dating tgt.. nv ask me along.. boooo
ur ji dan misses both of u =)